I do believe these are the hardest cards to make, especially so when it's for a family member. Recently, I had an Uncle pass away suddenly. Though I haven't seen him in a few years, I'll always remember him smiling and enjoying life. He will definitely be missed. I made some sympathy cards for his boys (I guess I should call them men at this stage of our life!) I tried to make the cards masculine looking by embossing them with an argyle folder. But not sure if that really worked or not. Oh and I also added an FSL angel in each card.